Tuesday, April 29, 2008

* Deep Breath *

I've been holding on to a secret. Well, not a huge secret as those that know me IRL are aware but I haven't wanted to say anything here until the ball was rolling.

It's not necessarily a good secret but here goes...

Mister Hunzer and I are no longer together.

Ugh. I hate saying that but this is the way it needs to be.

I will say this ~ I am blessed that he is the father of my children. He is an absolutely amazing Dad. He's also an amazing friend. We have a very strong friendship and we are still family. I know it'll get hard at times but we only have one focus ~ our kids. We want to keep them happy and healthy. They understand that even though Mom and Dad live in different houses, we are still FAMILY. That is our key word and it's the word that has gotten us through the last five months (we separated about five months ago).

FAMILY.

I did move out over the weekend but I only live two blocks away. I've been getting the place situated while working and keeping a smile on my face. It's not easy but like I said, I have a wonderful friend in Mister Hunzer.

Here's to a new path in life.

~ xoxo ~

PS...Now I can get decorating ideas from all you crafty people as I did not inherit an interior design gene AT ALL! *blush*

16 comments:

Nesa said...

*smoochies* sad to hear you and scarfman have seperated sweets, but as long as you know your head and heart are in the right place everything will always come out for the best.

the real ~Roxann~ said...

Wow, hunz. I think I'll address this in a personal email to you....
Off to find your email address...

Roxann

Amy said...

{{{{hugs}}}} to you chica.

Sorry that you are having to go through this. Kudos to you and Mr Hunzer for keeping the kids #1. You are a super strong chick and if you need anything (at least someone to talk to) I am here for ya.

Stay strong!!!!

~Just B~ said...

*HUGS*

I hope all goes well for you and your kiddos.

No design advice from me. I'm challenged as well. :P

Dee said...

I'm so sorry to hear that, Hunz. It sounds like you two have the right approach in dealing with it all. Hugs and good thoughts to you.

A J Doetkott said...

You are a strong and wonderful person, babe. I have faith in you and your beautiful family. Always know I love you and celebrate your life with you! XOXO

*Southern Beall* said...

WOW! That was some heavy news. I dont know you IRL but I did not see that one. Anyway, you seem at peace with it. ((hugs))
On another note, I can't wait to see your new place & what you are going to do with a new blank canvas. =)

Angie said...

Sarah,

I'm sorry about your divorce.

((hugs)) and good luck....

Angie from 2peas

Angela said...

well sending along some Huggies, although it really seems it was what needed to be. It is awesome that you are so strong, so sorry things didn't work out. Too be honest it sounds like you for sure are better this way, it seems you still have your BF in him but are happy to persue your life as you need to. And the little munchins are blessed to have some ADULTS as parents in their lives.

Mamarox said...

Big hugs!!!! If you haven't checked out designsponge.blogspot.com yet, I highly recommend it, loads of eye candy and cool ideas!!!

CircesMagic said...

From experience I know it is hard but your attitude and your united front will help keep things in focus...good luck on your new journey!

acomedianswife said...

HUGS! I'm sorry to hear that!

Michelle said...

Hey hon, just wanted to say hi & let you now that I was thinking of you.

Stina said...

Sorry to hear that dear. But i know you both are awesome people as well as awesome parents. You'll do great!

A J Doetkott said...

FUGGIT
Get back downstairs!!

Beth said...

Hey babe. Sorry to read this. It's been a long time since I checked in on your blog and then I see this.

Big hugs and lots of love.

Snark